The Dance of Intimacy

by Harriet Lerner
This is a really complicated book, and way less formulaic than a lot of self-help books. It consists mostly of lengthy descriptions of clients from Lerner’s practice and how they handled their intimacy troubles, with Lerner explaining the theory behind the situation and the mechanics of the solution. Having read it once, I may well read it again — there’s a lot of material for such a comparatively short book.